Connect with us

Power & Money

If She Earns More Than You

Published

on

women earn good money

Many guys whose Earns are less than their female partners’ ones feel that it’s not okay. They harass themselves with negative thoughts concerning the breadwinner status in their couple. Is that right? Or men can relax as we’re living in a changing world? Find out some tips to analyze this aspect of a couple’s life.

If She Earns More Than You

Nowadays women earn good money. They earn very good money, in many cases more than men. Some couples feel the negative impact of this situation. There are female breadwinners who do not care about the number of their incomes in comparison with their male ones. But there are men who are too bothered about it and nag and pester both themselves and their female partners. It’s high time to understand that we’re living in the world of equality: economic, social, right, status, and whatnot. The tips to get over this problem are given below.

women earn good money

It’s silly to get too bothered on this.
We live in a world where two in a family should bring money home in order to keep a family in a good financial state. Even if you don’t pamper in every toy and luxury out there, necessities like housekeeping things and near-necessities like school for the children are much more expensive than they were in the times when you went to school. You should be just glad the money’s coming in, but not be embarrassed over who in your couple is earning more.

silly to get too bothered on this.

Who are those who are trying to shame you on this?
The kind of people who try to shame males about earning less than their wives and girlfriends are the sort of people who need a laugh track to know when something’s funny. They are just ignorant and can’t think for themselves and borrow the ideas generated by others. Just don’t pay attention to their stupid comments as they are not the opinion-holders you should be concerned about.

The idea that men should support women was unfair to women too
Some dozens of years ago women had to rely on men regarding financial matters. Still, let’s not forget about the fact that not all the men were able to keep employed. Moreover, sometimes men were not very willing to work outside, but women had no chance to get employed as they were women. This old system was an injustice to everybody. So relax and be glad times have changed. The idea that men should support women was unfair to women too

You have a fear that your female partner is going to use the income to control you
So, this is the fear of reasonable concern. If your wife or girlfriend is using her higher salary to manipulate you or impose her points of view, that’s not okay and you should talk the matter over with her. But if you’re just experiencing a common feeling that she could do those things due to the fact that she’s earning more than you, then you need to revise your ideas about how things work. If she does love you, she wouldn’t emphasize the financial matter. Still, one day while having argue about this or that she can hurt you by accident having mentioned it. So, try to get a more-paid job.

Liam is a Derry boy (Londonderry, Northern Ireland). He began writing in 2011, starting as an intern on Men's Vanity Magazine and has contributed to more than 300 articles. He still lives in Derry and loves writing about business and wealth.

Click to comment

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *

This site uses Akismet to reduce spam. Learn how your comment data is processed.

Trending

2011-2023 - Men's Vanity Magazine Note: All images that appear on the site are copyright of their respective owners. There may be links to other websites; however MensVanity takes no control or responsibility for the source. MensVanity claims no credit for images unless noted. If you own the rights to any of the images and do not wish them to appear on MensVanity, please, contact us and they will be removed immediately. Contact: liam@mensvanity.com